Driving Kids

Kids are rambunctious. Not only can they bythe road or off of the roadway completely
hyper, but combine this energy balled up into thebefore addressing the issue.
back seat of your vehicle, and it could spellIf your children are old enough, make sure that
disaster for any parent who is untrained in the artthey understand the rules and regulations for
of driving with children. How often have youriding around in your vehicle. For example, before
driven down the road and witnessed a mother orwe would leave to go anywhere, my mother
father driving a minivan while half of their body iswould always make sure that everyone in the car
turned in their seat in the opposite direction ofhad their seat belts on. If we were in her car and
where their eyes should be focused? A fewwere still parked in the driveway, this would be
weeks ago, I sat at a stoplight and watched as aour first clue that someone didn't have their seat
middle-aged woman almost drove her van full ofbelt on. My mother would sit there without saying
bouncy children right through a stop sign simplya word; she would just give us a look that meant
because her attention was just a little toobusiness as we scrambled to match the belt
focused on what the children were doing in thebuckles of our safety belts.
back seat.A telling example of driving with children was
Naturally, when you are a parent (especially a newwhen my brother was younger. He must have
parent), you want to make sure that yourbeen five or six years old at the time and we
children are always kept safe. Ironically, however,were just coming back from a friend's house
many parents go against this train of thoughtduring the summer. As my mom was driving us
when they are overprotective of their children byback to our house, I was sitting in the front seat
checking in on them every two seconds whileand could recall seeing my brother fiddling around
driving. These types of parents have failed toin the back seat of the car. The next thing I
realize that by constantly taking their attention offheard was the door opening up. I turned around
of the road and refocusing it on their kids, theyto see my brother, with his seat belt still on,
are putting not only themselves but their childrenleaning half way out of the back door. I was going
as well into harms way. When you are behind theto say something to my mother, but she had
wheel of a car and you are chauffeuring childrenalready seen it before I did and stopped the car,
around, the kids have to come second. If there isjumping out to shut my brother's door. Thankfully,
something serious happening with one of yourwe were driving relatively slowly through our own
children while you are driving, or if you really needneighborhood, and additionally, my brother was
to discipline your children, wait until it is safe to dobuckled into his seat- another good reason to
so and then pull your vehicle over to the side ofwear your seat belt!